I will withhold names and situations to protect the innocent as much as possible.
I grew up under various adverse situations, from sexual abuse, bullying, being a latch-key kid, to raising two children from the time I was 11. They weren't as bad as other people who may have grown up living under a window sill dodging bullets, or having a parent beat you.
The problems that have come from this affected other people. Sometimes outside my control, sometimes with 20/20 hindsight of what I did wrong.
The biggest problem that came from this was the expectations that were placed upon me.
I was given responsibilities above my abilities. I had expectations placed upon me that still have repercussions today.