He's sixty and doing this? How long have you been married? You, madam, are a moron for putting up with plate throwing the first time.
You wouldn't accept this kind of behaviour for a toddler, so don't put up with it from an adult.
Next time he does it don't clean it up, and start giving him a baby bottle. If he throws the bottle, tell him the next thing he throws away will be his marriage because you aren't going to put up with his spoiled baby routine.
Balls up. What rational person thinks this is okay? You are nothing but his emotional slave.