T.V. aside, here are my responses to Dear Abby.
DEAR CRABBY: In June of last year I fractured my kneecap. I was employed at the time and asked my daughter to fill in for me while I recuperated. Not only did she walk away from the job, she has yet to visit or even call me to see how I am doing.
I can't imagine anyone being so cold and distant. It hurts me to this day. How can I get past this hurt and disappointment? -- STILL HURTING IN PALM DESERT
Be thankful that she helped at all. Clearly there are unresolved issues, but if she won't talk to you and you legit tried to talk to her, then the balls in her court. to quote a saccharine movie about emotional abuse resulting in an almost genocide, "Let it go, let it go..."